What Does Elope Mean? Let’s Talk About It!
What Does Elope Mean?
When you hear the word “elope,” what comes to mind? A couple running away in secret? A rushed courthouse wedding? A last-minute decision? If that’s what you’re thinking—get ready to have your mind blown, because eloping is so much more than that.
Eloping today means choosing an intentional, intimate, and meaningful way to celebrate your love. It’s about creating a day that reflects YOU, without the stress, pressure, or expectations of a traditional wedding. It’s about having the freedom to say your vows in the middle of the mountains, on a secluded beach, or in your favorite backyard spot. It’s about putting yourselves first and making sure your wedding day is an experience you’ll never forget. And let’s be honest… that sounds pretty awesome to us!
Common Myths About Eloping (And Why They’re Wrong!)
Let’s Take a Look at Some of the Biggest Myths About Eloping—And Bust Them Right Now!
- Myth #1: Eloping means running away in secret.
- Nope! Eloping isn’t about secrecy (unless you want it to be). You can absolutely invite your closest friends and family or make it just the two of you. Your day, your choice! Some couples keep their elopement a surprise until after the fact, while others include their loved ones in the planning. Whether you choose to keep things private or shout it from the rooftops, eloping is about doing what feels right for you.
- Myth #2: Eloping is just a courthouse wedding.
- Sure, you can have a courthouse elopement, but that’s just one of many options. You can exchange vows on a mountaintop, in a forest, at a waterfall, or anywhere that feels right for you. Imagine saying “I do” with the sound of waves crashing behind you, or standing on a breathtaking cliffside at sunset. Elopements can be as adventurous, scenic, or laid-back as you want. There are no rules—just endless possibilities.
- Myth #3: Eloping is selfish.
- Putting yourselves first on your wedding day is NOT selfish. It’s about celebrating your love in a way that feels right for you, not what others expect. Your wedding day should be a reflection of your relationship, your journey, and your dreams. Eloping gives you the space to focus on what truly matters—your commitment to each other—without outside pressure or obligations. Choosing to have an intimate experience isn’t selfish; it’s a meaningful, intentional decision to prioritize your love story.
- Myth #4: Elopements aren’t as special as big weddings.
- Actually, elopements are often more special because they’re deeply personal and focused on what truly matters—the two of you! Instead of worrying about seating charts, timelines, or managing a big guest list, you get to be present in the moment. You can take your time, soak in the experience, and create memories that feel authentic and meaningful. Every detail is chosen with intention, making your day even more unforgettable.
- Myth #5: Elopements are just for lonely people or those who don’t like big weddings.
- Elopements are not just for introverts or those avoiding crowds. They are for YOU—the lovers, the adventurers, the dreamers, and those who truly want a day that’s theirs, free from outside expectations. Elopements can be filled with adventure, or as relaxed as you want it to be. Which is AMAZING! You can have your day your way however you want it to be.
What Can You Do with an Elopement?
The better question is: What can’t you do? With an elopement, you are in control of what happens. There are no rules. No strict timelines. No pressure to entertain hundreds of guests. Just you, your partner, and an incredible experience. Here are some fun ideas:
- Hike to an epic overlook and say your vows at sunrise
- Exchange rings under a waterfall in Iceland
- Rent a cozy Airbnb and celebrate with a private dinner and champagne
- Have a picnic in your favorite park
- Explore a new city together and turn your elopement into an all-out adventure
- Ride a helicopter to a glacier in Alaska
- Get married at a spot that holds special meaning for you (where you first met, had your first date, etc.)
- Have your dogs as your only witnesses
Eloping Can Include Your Favorite People!
Eloping doesn’t mean it has to be just the two of you (unless you want it to be!). You can include your friends and family however you wish. Maybe you have a private vow reading on the top of a mountain and then celebrate with your closest loved ones at an Airbnb afterward. Or you fly across the country to a dream bucket list location just the two of you and then have a party later on. Or you ask your friends and family to write you letters that you’ll read together on the day of your elopement. Your day can be as intimate or as inclusive as you want it to be!
A few real elopements we’ve captured:
Want to see what real elopements look like? Check out these amazing couples who embraced the adventure and made their day unforgettable:
Believe in the Journey—Your Elopement, Your Way
At the end of the day, eloping is about celebrating your love your way. You can choose your day, your location, your vibe, and your experience. There’s no right or wrong way to elope—just your way. So, if the idea of a traditional wedding doesn’t excite you, know that you have other options. Do whatever you want. Make it your day. And most importantly—have the time of your life.
Eloping can be so freeing. It can be whatever you want it to be! Thinking about eloping but not sure where to start? We’d love to help bring your dream day to life! Reach out to us and let’s plan something amazing together. And if you need some advice on how to elope in Georgia, check out our blog post with tons of tips & tricks.
And whenever you’re ready to start planning your dream elopement day, reach out to us and let’s chat!
— Dylan & Esteban
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